Urban plunge...it's very geared to the students, it's a much calmer move in time. You as a parent wont get all the bells and whistles like the speeches and mass. But we didnt need nor want to sit thru them anyway. We basically moved in first thing. D had choice of bed, etc. When other girls moved in, d was all set and knew the campus well and she still did all the regular freshman orierientation stuff. As well urban plunge was a great program.
So unless you are all set on the trAdiational move in chaos, I would go for urban plunge for sure